You’ve heard it a thousand times: the sound of clinking glasses prompting the newlyweds to kiss. It’s tradition, sure—but if you’re ready to try something more fun, inclusive, and memorable, kissing games are a fantastic upgrade.

These modern alternatives bring energy to your reception, engage your guests, and offer up some of the best candid photo moments of the night.

Why Replace the Glass Clinking?

• More fun. Turns a tired tradition into something playful and interactive.
• Better photos. Guests getting silly makes for memorable, candid moments.
• Inclusive. Encourages participation from all ages and personality types.
• Personalized. Tie your kissing game into your love story, shared hobbies, or wedding theme.

Want to explore even more ways to liven up your reception? Don’t miss The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Games, packed with ideas for every part of your celebration.

Creative Kissing Game Ideas for Your Wedding

1. Trivia Challenge

Guests must answer a question about the couple to “earn” a kiss.
Example: “Where did they have their first date?”
Pro tip: Include a mix of easy and challenging questions for all ages.

2. Spin-the-Wheel or Dice Roll

Create a custom wheel or large foam dice with kiss-worthy outcomes like:

• “Sing a love song”
• “Show your best dance move”
• “Tell a couple story”

3. Love Song Serenade

Guests must sing—or at least attempt—a romantic tune.
Works best with: Outgoing guests, musical family members, or even the bridal party.

4. Couples Showdown

Invite another couple from the audience to kiss first—then challenge the newlyweds to match it.
Best for: Light-hearted groups with fun-loving friends and family.

5. Jar of Dares or Challenges

Guests pull slips of paper with sweet, silly, or meaningful prompts like:

• “Tell your favourite memory of the couple.”
• “Say a toast in under 10 words.”
• “Do your best celebrity impression.”

6. Wheel of Kisses

Let the couple spin a wheel featuring different kiss styles or poses:

• Forehead kiss
• Movie star kiss
• Dramatic dip
• Nose boop

Planning your reception layout? Mix in some Wedding Table Games to keep every part of the evening interactive.

Tips for Making Kissing Games Work

• Make instructions clear. A well-placed sign or quick MC announcement goes a long way.
• Don’t overuse it. A few rounds is plenty—let the game naturally wind down.
• Know your audience. Choose games that match your guests’ personalities and comfort levels.
• Keep it family-friendly. Aim for silly, not steamy—especially if kids or grandparents are in the room.