Engagement sessions aren’t just another photo op—they’re a valuable part of your wedding experience. While not mandatory, they offer more than just pretty pictures. Think of them as a test drive with your photographer, a fun date night, and a chance to get comfortable in front of the camera—all rolled into one.
Here’s why most photographers recommend them—and why you might want to say yes.
1. It’s a Test Run With Your Photographer
You’ll spend more time with your photographer than almost anyone on your wedding day. An engagement session gives you both the chance to:
- Get to know each other
- Understand how they shoot and direct
- Build trust and chemistry
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2. You’ll Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera
If you or your partner are camera-shy (read: most of us), this session helps:
- Shake off the awkwardness
- Learn how to pose naturally
- Feel more confident on the big day
3. You Can Combine It With Hair & Makeup Trials
Why not maximize your beauty trial? You’re already glammed up—put it to use!
- See how your look translates on camera
- Make any tweaks before wedding day
4. It’s a Great Excuse for a Date Night
Engagement sessions can be fun and casual—have your photographer meet you at your favorite bar, hike, or hangout spot. Celebrate your relationship with a photo shoot that feels like you.
5. The Photos Are Actually Useful
Engagement photos aren’t just for Instagram (though they’re great for that too):
- Use them for save-the-dates or invites
- Add them to your wedding website
- Frame them for your home
6. The Vibe Is More “You”
Your wedding day will be formal. Engagement photos can be anything but.
- Wear what you’d normally wear on a date
- Choose a location that feels personal
- Capture your relationship in a low-pressure setting
When to Skip an Engagement Session
If you’ve done a shoot with your photographer before, or you’re on a strict budget, skipping the session is okay. Just make sure:
- You still meet with your photographer beforehand
- You’re clear about your comfort level and preferences
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Final Thought
Engagement sessions aren’t just about more photos. They’re about connection, comfort, and giving yourself a chance to relax before the whirlwind of your wedding day.
If your photographer offers one—it’s probably for a good reason.