Engagement sessions aren’t just another photo op—they’re a valuable part of your wedding experience. While not mandatory, they offer more than just pretty pictures. Think of them as a test drive with your photographer, a fun date night, and a chance to get comfortable in front of the camera—all rolled into one.
Here’s why most photographers recommend them—and why you might want to say yes.
1. It’s a Test Run With Your Photographer
You’ll spend more time with your photographer than almost anyone on your wedding day. An engagement session gives you both the chance to:
- Get to know each other
- Understand how they shoot and direct
- Build trust and chemistry
- Chemistry matters when finding a photographer who fits your personality and style.
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2. You’ll Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera
If you or your partner are camera-shy (read: most of us), this session helps:
- Shake off the awkwardness
- Learn how to pose naturally
- Feel more confident on the big day
It’s also a chance to explore different wedding photography styles in a relaxed, personal setting.
3. You Can Combine It With Hair & Makeup Trials
Why not maximize your beauty trial? You’re already glammed up—put it to use!
- See how your look translates on camera
- Make any tweaks before wedding day
4. It’s a Great Excuse for a Date Night
Engagement sessions can be fun and casual—have your photographer meet you at your favorite bar, hike, or hangout spot. Celebrate your relationship with a photo shoot that feels like you.
5. The Photos Are Actually Useful
Engagement photos aren’t just for Instagram (though they’re great for that too):
- Use them for save-the-dates or invites
- Add them to your wedding website
- Frame them for your home
6. The Vibe Is More “You”
Your wedding day will be formal. Engagement photos can be anything but.
- Wear what you’d normally wear on a date
- Choose a location that feels personal
- Capture your relationship in a low-pressure setting
Not sure if an engagement session is worth it? Start by reflecting on what you really want from your photos and experience.
When to Skip an Engagement Session
If you’ve done a shoot with your photographer before, or you’re on a strict budget, skipping the session is okay. Just make sure:
- You still meet with your photographer beforehand
- You’re clear about your comfort level and preferences
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Final Thought
Engagement sessions aren’t just about more photos. They’re about connection, comfort, and giving yourself a chance to relax before the whirlwind of your wedding day.
If your photographer offers one—it’s probably for a good reason.