This Can Make or Break Your Wedding Experience

Photographers are with you more than almost anyone on your wedding day — and we’ve seen it all. The smooth timelines. The emotional first looks. The logistical chaos. The minor missteps that led to major regrets.

This is what we’d tell every couple, if we could, before they walk down the aisle:

A real-talk list of do’s and don’ts to help you enjoy the experience and get the best photos possible.

The DO’s — For Better Photos and a Smoother Day

1. Build Buffer Time Into Your Timeline

Hair runs late. Traffic happens. Emotions are unpredictable. Build in extra breathing room between each part of the day so you don’t feel rushed.
Related: The Ultimate Wedding Timeline Guide (Photographer-Approved)

2. Choose Light-Filled, Clutter-Free Prep Spaces

Where you get ready matters. Natural light + minimal background distractions = beautiful, relaxed prep photos.
Related: What Makes a Great Getting Ready Space for Wedding Photos

3. Trust Your Photographer’s Process

You hired them for a reason. Let them work without micromanagement — the best moments often happen naturally when they’re given creative freedom.

4. Communicate What Matters Most

Is there a person, tradition, or detail you must capture? Tell your photographer early. Make a short list, not a novel.
Related: Wedding Day Shot List: What You Actually Need (and What You Don’t)

5. Pause and Take a Breath Before the Ceremony

Look around. Be present. That deep breath will help ground you — and give your photographer a powerful, emotional moment to capture.

The DON’Ts — Common Mistakes to Avoid

1. DON’T Hand Over a Massive Pinterest Shot List

Shot lists can stifle creativity. Let your photographer tell your story — not recreate someone else’s.
Related: Why You Might Not Need a Wedding Shot List

2. DON’T Skip the First Look Just for Tradition’s Sake

First looks aren’t for everyone — but they can calm nerves and create more time for portraits early in the day. Do what feels right for you.
Related: The Ultimate Wedding Timeline Guide (Photographer-Approved)

3. DON’T Rely on Guests to Manage Your Wedding

Well-meaning friends and family shouldn’t run your schedule. A planner or day-of coordinator keeps everything running smoothly.
Related: Do You Need a Wedding Planner or Day-of Coordinator?

4. DON’T Stress Over the Weather

Rain, wind, or clouds? Your photographer is ready. Some of the most cinematic images come from imperfect conditions.

5. DON’T Forget to Be Present

This is your one shot at this day. Hug. Dance. Cry. Laugh. Let go. The best photos aren’t staged — they’re lived.
Related: Things That Always Go Wrong on Wedding Days (According to Photographers)

Photographer Insight

“The best photos aren’t posed — they’re felt. Be in your body. Be with your partner. That connection is what makes your wedding day unforgettable — in real life and in your gallery.”