Finding a good photographer is easy. Finding the right photographer for you? That takes a little more intention.

This article will help you move beyond star ratings and portfolios and focus on what actually makes a photographer a great fit for your wedding.

Step 1: Know Your Priorities

Before you browse a single portfolio, ask yourself:

• Do I care more about candid moments or stunning portraits?
• Do I want a photographer who directs, or one who blends into the background?
• Am I hiring for style, energy, personality—or all three?

Start here: 6 Important Questions to Ask Yourself Before Hiring Your Wedding Photographer

Step 2: Look for Alignment, Not Just Talent

There are a lot of talented photographers. The one you want is the one who:

• Feels like they “get” your relationship
• Shoots in a way that reflects your vibe
• Communicates clearly and respectfully

This is especially important if you’re a little camera-shy or want someone who can help guide you through the day with ease.

Step 3: Read More Than Just the Portfolio

Yes, their photos matter—but so does everything else:

• Their bio: Do they talk about why they shoot weddings?
• Their blog or captions: Does their tone resonate with you?
• Their reviews: Do past clients describe the kind of experience you want?

Related read: How to Analyze a Wedding Photographer’s Website Like a Pro

Step 4: Pay Attention to Communication

The way a photographer communicates before booking is usually a strong clue about what to expect afterward:

• Do they answer emails promptly and professionally?
• Do they offer helpful, personalized responses?
• Do they respect your time and boundaries?

If communication is slow or confusing now, it may be even worse once they’re booked.

Step 5: Trust Your Gut

Do you feel seen by this photographer? Do you feel like they care?

Chemistry matters. You’ll be spending more time with your photographer on your wedding day than almost anyone else. If they feel like a stranger—or worse, a stressor—move on.

Next step: What to Expect When Meeting a Wedding Photographer for a Consultation